Sometimes we fall into the trap of viewing our place in the world in black and white terms. If you are not strong, you are weak. If you are not winning, then you’re losing and if you are not successful, then you must be a failure. We hear these fear-based mantras and allow ourselves to believe them, even though we know they are not true. It is simply impossible for these binary labels to encompass the wide spectrum of highs, lows, and in-betweens that make up our life story.